From Lori Muhr:
Of course, when I think of Cynthia, I remember how giving and
caring she was, without fail. When she did her first marathon in San
Diego, I couldn't go because I was too close to my due date with Rider. I was
heartbroken because I wanted to support Cynthia and see her cross that finish
line. She was also disappointed because she was going to have some
friends and family accompany her but they couldn't make it and now I wasn't
going to be there. So, despite a heavy heart, Cynthia, with her positive
attitude and mammoth determination, Cynthia went to San Diego and completed her
marathon. She was ecstatic! Rider was born shortly after she
returned and Cynthia drove out to Grafton just to bring him a gift and to give
me a hug. She didn't stay for more than 15 minutes because she had
another appointment and off she went. It was so important to her to see
Rider and to thank Rick and me for the support we gave her that she drove an
hour just to say "thank you".
Another memory is when Cynthia came to Grafton for Rick's 50 mile run on the
track for his Man Of the Year campaign. She spent her entire Easter
Sunday on the field with us to support Rick in his run. My mom met
Cynthia for the first time that day and this is what she says: "Cynthia immediately
stole my heart. Here was a young sweet girl from Ecuador, so humble and
genuine and so friendly. We walked the last lap of Rick's run together
laughing and enjoying the day. I felt like I had known her for
years."
At the end of that day, I hugged Cynthia and thanked her for being with us all
day and she simply said "I can't think of a better way to have spent my
Easter."
One of my favorite memories brings a smile to my face every time.
Cynthia, my brother Jay, and I spent most of the night together during
Rick's Man of the Year celebration. As brothers and sisters sometimes do,
Jay and I were ribbing each other about various things and Cynthia was right
there in her diplomatic way trying to "defend" each of us from the
jabs we were giving. We all enjoyed the laughter that evening.
During the last weeks before the Boston marathon, Cynthia called me almost
daily to "check in". She was so excited to have her family
coming to visit and was trying to complete her dissertation and prepare herself
for the marathon. I don't think her feet were even touching the
ground. I think of those calls and her gitty excitement and it
makes me smile. I am so grateful that Cynthia touched my life.